Managing Fear

Managing Fear: Understanding the Psychological Origin and Physiological Response

Fear is a natural human emotion, and it plays a significant role in our lives. While it can protect us from danger, fear can also be paralyzing and limit our potential for growth and happiness. Over the years as a therapist, I’ve witnessed how fear can hold people back from living their best lives. While none of us escape the experience of fear, we can choose to learn more about it and learn how to better respond when we’re in it. In this blog post, I’ll explore the psychological genesis of fear and what happens physiologically when we’re experiencing it. Understanding these aspects is the first step towards managing fear and maintaining perspective and direction.

The Psychological Origins of Fear

Fear is a complex emotion with deep psychological roots. To manage and move past fear, it’s essential to understand where it comes from and how it can manifest itself in our lives. Here are some psychological origins of fear:

1. Evolutionary Origins:

Fear has evolved as a survival mechanism. In our distant past, fear served as a crucial signal that alerted us to potential threats and this helped us survive. It allowed our ancestors to respond quickly to life-threatening situations, such as encounters with predators. This innate fear response is hardwired into our brains and can be triggered by various situations. Sometimes these situations are justified such as a person breaking into your home while sleeping but oftentimes they’re not justified such as when you move into a place of fear because you might get fired from your job. Getting fired may trigger financial struggle and require time and energy to find a new job but you’re not going to die from it.

2. Early Childhood Experiences:

Our early experiences can shape our perception of fear. Traumatic events, neglect, or the absence of a secure attachment can contribute to the development of phobias, anxiety, or other fear-related disorders. It’s important to explore and address these early experiences to overcome deep-seated fears.

3. Social Conditioning:

Fear can also be learned through social conditioning. Our culture, family, and peers can influence our perception of what we should fear. We may adopt the fears of those around us, even if they are not rational. For example, the fear of public speaking is often learned through social conditioning.

4. Cognitive Factors:

Our thoughts and beliefs play a significant role in the experience of fear. Catastrophic thinking, irrational beliefs, and negative self-talk can all contribute to the development and maintenance of fear. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a helpful approach to address and reframe these cognitive factors.

Physiological Responses to Fear

Understanding what happens in our bodies when we experience fear can demystify this emotion and empower us to manage it more effectively. When we perceive a threat, whether it’s real or imagined, our body goes through a series of physiological responses known as the “fight or flight” response. Here’s what happens:

1. Activation of the Sympathetic Nervous System:

The sympathetic nervous system is responsible for initiating the “fight or flight” response. When we sense danger, this system activates, leading to an increase in heart rate, faster breathing, and heightened alertness. These changes prepare the body for quick action.

2. Release of Stress Hormones:

The brain’s hypothalamus-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis is activated, leading to the release of stress hormones, such as cortisol and adrenaline. These hormones increase energy levels, focus and strength, allowing us to respond to threats effectively.

3. Blood Flow Redistribution:

To prepare for action, the body redistributes blood flow away from non-essential functions (such as digestion) and toward the muscles and brain. This can result in physical symptoms like a tense neck, sweaty palms, and a churning stomach.

4. Heightened Senses:

Fear sharpens our senses, making us more aware of our surroundings. Our vision and hearing become more acute, helping us detect potential threats.

5. Tunnel Vision and Cognitive Changes:

In a state of fear, our focus narrows, and we may experience tunnel vision. Our cognitive abilities become laser-focused on the perceived threat, making it difficult to think rationally or logically in that moment.

Managing and Moving Through Fear

As outlined above, the sympathetic nervous system’s activation is a natural response to fear and is often referred to as the “fight or flight” response. It’s a critical mechanism that helps us react quickly to threats and challenges. However, living in a prolonged state of activation, or chronic stress, can have detrimental effects on our physical and mental well-being. Below, I’ll explore strategies to manage and move through fear in order to feel more at peace and lessen the harmful effects it can have on us when it’s not helpful and rational.

1. Awareness:

The first step in managing fear is to become aware of it. Recognize when you are feeling afraid and try to identify the trigger or underlying cause. Journaling can be a helpful tool in this process. So can talking about it with a trusted friend.

2. Cognitive Restructuring:

Challenge irrational beliefs and negative thought patterns that contribute to fear. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a proven method for identifying and changing these thought patterns.

3. Exposure Therapy:

Gradual and controlled exposure to the source of fear can help desensitize your response over time. The mind figures out it’s not a threat so it doesn’t respond with a fight, flight or freeze response.

4. Relaxation Techniques:

Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation to manage the physiological responses to fear.

5. Seek Support:

Don’t hesitate to seek support from a licensed mental health therapist. They can provide you with tools and strategies tailored to your specific fears and circumstances. Your partner or a good friend who knows and understands you can also be an invaluable source of support.

6. Mindfulness and Grounding:

Techniques like mindfulness and grounding can help you stay present and reduce the intensity of fear. These practices can be especially helpful in managing panic attacks or acute fear responses. Mindfulness and meditation are proven to reduce the negative psychological and physiological effects of stress, anxiety, and fear.


Fear is a natural and adaptive response, but it can also be limiting and distressing when it becomes overwhelming. By understanding the psychological origins and the body’s response to fear, you can take the first step toward moving past it. Remember that managing fear is a process and a journey, and the use of coping skills and insights should be practiced regularly in order to effectively meet the challenges and difficulties of life enabling you to thrive and grow into your potential.

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